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People, trust and showing up for each other. 86 quotes, each with where it was said.

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If you go looking for a friend, you're going to find they're very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere.
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Zig ZiglarAs quoted in The Power of Respect by Deborah Norville (2009)
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The quality of your life is the quality of your communication.
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Tony RobbinsUnlimited Power (1986)
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To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.
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Tony RobbinsUnlimited Power (1986)
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You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
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Dale CarnegieHow to Win Friends and Influence People (1936)
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When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion.
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Dale CarnegieHow to Win Friends and Influence People (1936)
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Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
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Dale CarnegieHow to Win Friends and Influence People (1936)
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Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.
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Stephen R. CoveyThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (1989)
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Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
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Stephen R. CoveyThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (1989), Habit 5
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You will never win if you have to prove that you are the winner.
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Wayne DyerPulling Your Own Strings (1978)
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Leadership is not about titles, positions, or flowcharts. It is about one life influencing another.
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John C. MaxwellThe 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership (1998)
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The business of business is relationships; the business of life is human connection.
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Robin SharmaThe 5AM Club (2018)
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We have to belong to ourselves as much as we need to belong to others. Any belonging that asks us to betray ourselves is not true belonging.
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Brené BrownAtlas of the Heart (2021)
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A tribe is a group of people connected to one another, connected to a leader, and connected to an idea.
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Seth GodinTribes (2008)
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Life is really very simple. What we give out, we get back.
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Louise HayYou Can Heal Your Life (1984)
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Discourage litigation. Persuade your neighbors to compromise whenever you can. Point out to them how the nominal winner is often a real loser, in fees, expenses, and waste of time.
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Abraham LincolnNotes for a Law Lecture (c. 1850)
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The better part of one's life consists of his friendships.
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Abraham LincolnLetter to Joseph Gillespie (1849)
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Stand with anybody that stands right. Stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong.
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Abraham LincolnSpeech at Peoria, Illinois (1854)
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Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.
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George WashingtonLetter to Bushrod Washington (1783)
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True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.
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George WashingtonLetter to Bushrod Washington (1783)
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Confidence... thrives on honesty, on honor, on the sacredness of obligations, on faithful protection and on unselfish performance.
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Franklin D. RooseveltFirst Inaugural Address (1933)
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I have found the best way to give advice to your children is to find out what they want and then advise them to do it.
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Harry S. TrumanPerson to Person, CBS Television (1955)
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Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with conflict by peaceful means.
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Ronald ReaganCommencement Address at Eureka College (1982)
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Let us learn together and laugh together and work together and pray together, confident that in the end we will triumph together in the right.
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Jimmy CarterInaugural Address (1977)
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The bond of our common humanity is stronger than the divisiveness of our fears and prejudices.
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Jimmy CarterNobel Peace Prize lecture (2002)
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Rosalynn was my equal partner in everything I ever accomplished.
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Jimmy CarterStatement on the death of Rosalynn Carter (2023)
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If you want to make peace with your enemy, you have to work with your enemy. Then he becomes your partner.
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Nelson MandelaLong Walk to Freedom (1994)
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The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
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Mahatma GandhiYoung India (1931)
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Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
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Martin Luther King Jr.Loving Your Enemies sermon (1957), published in Strength to Love (1963)
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Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.
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Martin Luther King Jr.Loving Your Enemies sermon (1957)
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No man can put a chain about the ankle of his fellow man without at last finding the other end fastened about his own neck.
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Frederick DouglassSpeech at the Civil Rights Mass Meeting, Washington, D.C. (1883)
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The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen nor even touched but just felt in the heart.
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Helen KellerLetter to Rev. Phillips Brooks (1891)
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The biggest disease today is not leprosy or tuberculosis, but rather the feeling of being unwanted.
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Mother TeresaAs quoted by Malcolm Muggeridge in Something Beautiful for God (1971)
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The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.
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Mother TeresaInterview in TIME (1989)
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If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.
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Mother TeresaEssay on working toward peace, Santa Clara University archive
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Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.
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Mother TeresaAs quoted in Worldwide Laws of Life (1998)
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It is the enemy who can truly teach us to practice the virtues of compassion and tolerance.
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Dalai LamaOcean of Wisdom (1989)
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Without forgiveness there can be no future for a relationship between individuals or within and between nations.
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Desmond TutuInterview with BBC Focus on Africa (2000)
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A person is a person because he recognizes others as persons.
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Desmond TutuAddress at his enthronement as Archbishop of Cape Town (1986)
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For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.
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Carl SaganContact (1985), Chapter 24
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I have never met a man so ignorant that I could not learn something from him.
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Galileo GalileiQuoted in Will Durant, The Age of Reason Begins (1961); no primary source
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Reprove your friend in secret and praise him openly.
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Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci, tr. Richter (1883)
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Be slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing.
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Benjamin FranklinPoor Richard's Almanack (1735)
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Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.
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AristotleNicomachean Ethics, Book VIII
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When people are friends, they have no need of justice, but when they are just, they need friendship in addition.
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AristotleNicomachean Ethics, Book VIII
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A friend is one soul abiding in two bodies.
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AristotleQuoted in Diogenes Laertius, Lives of Eminent Philosophers
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When we see men of worth, we should think of equaling them; when we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves.
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ConfuciusAnalects, Book IV, tr. James Legge
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When I walk along with two others, they may serve me as my teachers. I will select their good qualities and follow them, their bad qualities and avoid them.
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ConfuciusAnalects, Book VII, tr. James Legge
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What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.
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ConfuciusAnalects, Book XV
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Associate with those who will make a better man of you. Welcome those whom you yourself can improve. The process is mutual; for men learn while they teach.
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SenecaMoral Letters to Lucilius, Letter VII, tr. Richard Gummere
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Whoever gives reverence receives reverence.
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RumiMasnavi, Book I, tr. Kabir Helminski
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Many of the faults you see in others, dear reader, are your own nature reflected in them.
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RumiMasnavi, Book I, tr. Kabir Helminski
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The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one.
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Ralph Waldo EmersonEssay 'Friendship', Essays: First Series (1841)
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Trust men and they will be true to you; treat them greatly, and they will show themselves great.
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Ralph Waldo EmersonEssay 'Prudence', Essays: First Series (1841)
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Love truth, but pardon error.
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VoltaireSept Discours en Vers sur l'Homme (1738)
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The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
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Carl JungModern Man in Search of a Soul (1933)
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If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves.
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Carl JungThe Integration of the Personality (1939)
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Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
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Carl JungMemories, Dreams, Reflections (1963)
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The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook.
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William JamesThe Principles of Psychology (1890), Ch. 22
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Wherever you are it is your own friends who make your world.
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William JamesQuoted in Ralph Barton Perry, The Thought and Character of William James (1935)
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The secret of happiness is this: let your interests be as wide as possible, and let your reactions to the things and persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly rather than hostile.
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Bertrand RussellThe Conquest of Happiness (1930)
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The heart has its reasons, which reason does not know.
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Blaise PascalPensees, 277, tr. W. F. Trotter
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It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.
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Warren BuffettAs quoted in Corporate Survival by Dan Robert Anderson (2005)
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Whatever anybody says or does, assume positive intent.
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Indra NooyiThe Best Advice I Ever Got, Fortune (2008), passing on her father's advice
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We are not in the coffee business serving people, but in the people business serving coffee.
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Everyone has an invisible sign hanging from his or her neck that says, 'Make me feel important!'
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Mary Kay AshMary Kay on People Management (1984)
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The fastest way to change yourself is to hang out with people who are already the way you want to be.
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Reid HoffmanThe Start-up of You, with Ben Casnocha (2012)
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The most important thing for a young man is to establish a credit, a reputation, character.
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John D. RockefellerAs quoted in The Men Who Are Making America by B. C. Forbes (1917)
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Play iterated games. All the returns in life, whether in wealth, relationships, or knowledge, come from compound interest.
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Naval RavikantHow to Get Rich (without getting lucky), Twitter thread (2018)
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If we are bold, love strikes away the chains of fear from our souls.
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Maya AngelouA Brave and Startling Truth (1995)
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Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.
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Maya AngelouWouldn't Take Nothing for My Journey Now (1993)
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When people show you who they are, believe them, the first time.
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Maya AngelouLesson recounted by Oprah Winfrey, Wellesley College commencement (2015)
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Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.
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Mark TwainFollowing the Equator (1897), ch. 48
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
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Oscar WildeThe Soul of Man under Socialism (1891)
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Love all, trust a few, Do wrong to none.
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William ShakespeareAll's Well That Ends Well (c. 1605), Act I, scene 1
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I meant what I said and I said what I meant. An elephant's faithful, one hundred percent.
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Dr. SeussHorton Hatches the Egg (1940)
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Friendship, I have said, is born at the moment when one man says to another 'What! You too? I thought that no one but myself...'
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C.S. LewisThe Four Loves (1960)
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Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
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Leo TolstoyAnna Karenina (1877), opening line
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The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved.
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Victor HugoLes Misérables (1862)
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It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.
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Antoine de Saint-ExupéryThe Little Prince (1943)
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The more I think it over, the more I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.
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Vincent van GoghLetter (September 18, 1888)
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Someone has a great fire in his soul and nobody ever comes to warm themselves at it, and passers-by see nothing but a little smoke at the top of the chimney and then go on their way.
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Vincent van GoghLetter to Theo, no. 155 (June 1880)
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Children internalize their parents' unhappiness. Fortunately, they absorb our contentment just as readily.
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Lucille BallLove, Lucy (1996)
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I think everybody longs to be loved, and longs to know that he or she is lovable. And, consequently, the greatest thing that we can do is to help somebody know that they're loved and capable of loving.
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Fred RogersFred Rogers: America's Favorite Neighbor (2003)
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I believe that appreciation is a holy thing, that when we look for what's best in the person we happen to be with at the moment, we're doing what God does.
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Fred RogersCommencement address, Middlebury College (May 2001)
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All you need is love.
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John LennonAll You Need Is Love (1967), song
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And love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love cannot be killed or swept aside.
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Lin-Manuel MirandaSonnet in his Tony Awards acceptance speech (June 12, 2016)